Are You Looking for a God Who Loves You? (John 3:16)
[Sermon from Joshua House at Vineyard Columbus, Ohio] [Click HERE for audio of the sermon]I want to tell you a story tonight. It is a sad story. It is a heartbreaking story. And it is a true story. The man’s name was John Griffith and the year was 1937. John had lost everything that he had in the stock market crash. So like most people in those days, he found work wherever he could, which for him, meant moving to Mississippi where he took a job as a railroad bridge operator. At scheduled times each and every day, the huge bridge was raised so that ships could make their way down the river, and the bridge was lowered so that trains could cross over.
That summer, John took his 8-year-old son, Greg, with him to work for the first time. The boy, like every boy would be, was thrilled to be so close to the railroad bridge and to see the trains and the boats. But he was thrilled most of all to see that his dad was in charge of it all.
John took Greg to an observation deck so that he could watch the boats and trains go by. At noon, as usual, John put up the bridge to let a few boats through. And, also as usual, he didn’t bother to put the bridge down because he knew it would be over an hour before the next train was scheduled to cross. But in the midst of all the fun that John and Greg were having, he lost track of time. Until suddenly he heard, off in the distance, the sound of the speeding train rushing towards the raised bridge. The train was the Memphis Express, a passenger train with some 400 people on board. Immediately John ran from the observation deck to the control tower. He placed his hand upon the massive iron controls. But just before pulling the lever, as was his habit, he quickly glanced under the bridge to make sure that there were no ships crossing.
And in that instant, while he did not see any ships, what he did see was the most terrifying sight of them all.
He saw his son Greg, who had slipped from the observation deck and had fallen into the huge gears that operate the bridge. Though the boy was still alive and conscious, his left leg was caught in the cogs of the main gears. John could see that his son was in great pain.
In just a matter of a few minutes, a heart-warming afternoon with his beloved son turned into a heart-wrenching dilemma, faced with a choice that no parent should be confronted with. Ever!
There were two choices and only two. He could run to his son as fast as he possibly could, frantically pulling on the gears to somehow free his son, and thus save his life. Or he could pull the lever to bring the bridge down and save the lives of the 400 passengers on the train. And the cruelest part of it all was that it was one or the other. Either the 400 passengers were going to die, or his son, Greg, was going to be crushed to death.
After what must have seemed like an eternity of agony and toil, John buried his head in his left arm and pulled the lever, fully aware of what this meant for his beloved son, Greg. With his closed eyes streaming with tears, John could hear the train passing over the bridge. And with the only strength he had left in him, he opened his eyes and looked into the train windows. He could see that there were businessmen casually reading their newspapers, uniformed conductors looking at their large vest-pocket watches, well-dressed ladies in the dining car sipping coffee, and happy children playing with their toys. No one looked back at him. Why would they? This was just another bridge and he was just another bridge operator.
With wrenching pain in his heart, John screamed at the train, “I sacrificed my son for you! Don't you care?” But nobody heard. Nobody realized what had just happened. And life went on as usual for everyone on the train. While for John, his life was never to be the same again.
The Greatest Verse in the Entire Bible
There is a verse in the Bible that I think all of us here have heard at least once, and most of us probably have memorized. We see it written on the bypass. We see it in baseball games and football games. And we even see it written in bathroom stalls. It has been called the “The Gospel in a Nutshell.” It has been called “A Love Letter from God Written in Blood and Addressed to All.” And it has been called “The Greatest Verse in the Entire Bible.” Of course, I am talking about John 3:16:
John 3:16In just 26 little words, we have the central theme of the entire Christian message. It is brilliant in its preciseness. Yet the depth and the scope of these words have baffled man and woman of God for 2000 years. It is simple enough for a toddler to memorize at Sunday school, but profound enough for a lifetime of wonder and awe. If you know nothing of the Bible, you start here. If you know everything in the Bible, you return here. So, as we continue on the sermon series entitled, “The God You’re Looking For,” tonight, I would like to spend our time together digging into this one verse, John 3:16, in a sermon I’ve entitled “Are You Looking for a God Who Loves You?”
For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.
And if we could do something just a little bit different today, would you please all stand with me, and let’s read this verse together in one voice. And after we read the verse, I’m going to give us just a minute of silence for us to reflect upon these words. And then I’ll pray before we continue on. So, please stand and let’s read together, these words of Jesus:
John 3:16Let’s pray.
For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.
As we dig into John 3:16, we will see, revealed in these words, five life-changing truths. So, let us examine these one by one.
For God
The verse starts off with “For God…”
John 3:16
For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.
The first life-changing truth revealed in John 3:16 is this: There is a God!
Life-Changing Truth #1: There is a GodLet me say that again. There is a God. I don’t know if you realize this or not, but if there really is a God, then everything, absolutely everything, everything in my life and everything in your life, must be viewed in light of this mind-boggling truth. There is a God. And we start here because it is not merely the beginning of this verse, but it is the beginning of our story. And this story is not merely a story but it is the story. It is the story that we see in Genesis 1:1, where we read:
Genesis 1:1There is a God and he created the heavens and the earth.
In the beginning God created the heavens and the earth.
Our galaxy is comprised of over a hundred billion stars. And our galaxy is just one of billions of other galaxies. Who can fathom such galaxies upon galaxies; much less create such vastness but God?You know, let’s say that you were bored one day and you decide to drive to the sun, and you were somehow able to do this in your dilapidated 92 Ford Escort that your parents got for you when you graduated from High School. And let’s say that you were speeding like crazy going 150 mph, which is no small feat for the 92 Ford Escort. In this car, traveling at 150 mph, if you drive nonstop, 24 hours a day, 365 days a year, get this, it will take you 70 years to reach the sun. And you thought driving to Ikea was bad! And let’s say that once you reach the sun after 70 years, and you get ambitious and want to travel some more, and you decide as your destination Alpha Centauri, the next closest star system. You’ll need 15 million years to make that trip!
And for those of us who just don’t have that kind of time, but maybe have some money, and you were able to fly in a jet that flies at 600 mph, it will still take you 16.5 days to reach the moon, it will take you 17 years to pass the sun, and it will take you 690 years to reach Pluto. And this is all still just in our solar system!
And not only is the universe that God created beyond our comprehension in its vastness, but also its minute details are magnificent!
The cosmological constant, which represents the energy density of space, is as precise as throwing a dart from space and hitting a bulls-eye just a trillionth of an inch in diameter on earth. The sun makes life possible on earth only because it is exactly the right mass, exactly the right light, exactly the right age, exactly the right distance, exactly the right orbit, exactly the right galaxy, exactly the right location. If any of these constants are thrown off by even just a minutia, life on planet earth would not be possible. The gravity that we feel on our planet is fine tuned to one part in a hundred million billion billion billion billion billion. That is 1 with 53 zeros! It is no wonder that the astronomer George Greenstein said this:
As we survey all the evidence, the thought insistently arises that some supernatural agency – or, rather, Agency – must be involved. Is it possible that suddenly, without intending to, we have stumbled upon scientific proof of the existence of a Supreme Being? Was it God who stepped in and so providentially crafted the cosmos for our benefit?Psalm 19:1 exclaims:
Psalm 19:1A painting implies that there is painter. A house implies that there is a builder. The universe implies that there is a God! A God who is all-powerful, all-wise, all-knowing, all-sufficient, all-in-all. An artistic God who has an eye for details. This mighty God, the Creator of the Universe, has no beginning and he has no end! There is a God! And the heavens are declaring his glory!
The heavens declare the glory of God; the skies proclaim the work of his hands.
So loved
And John 3:16 tells us that this God is not just any God but he is a loving God.
John 3:16The second life-changing truth revealed in John 3:16 is this: God is a God of love.
For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.
Life-Changing Truth #2: God is a God of Love.This magnificent and majestic God, the Creator of the Universe, who has no beginning and who has no end, who has no need of any kind, this God is a God of love! Let that truth sink in for a minute. Why would a God who is all-powerful, all-wise, all-sufficient, all-in-all, why would this God love? Why? Contrast that to the powerful people in our world today. You see, power and love seldom go hand in hand. In fact, it seems that they are inversely proportional, that as a person becomes more powerful, his capacity to love seems to diminish proportionally. But the most-powerful God is different. This God is wonderfully different. He is a God who holds in his hands all the power of the universe, and yet his heart is full of love. He loves.
And I think it would be prudent for us to take a pause at this point and ask ourselves, “What is love?” It is a wonderful little word that is completely worn out, meaning completely different things for different people. For instance, this morning I used “love” to describe my feeling toward my wife, my children, and granola bars. I obviously did not mean that my feelings toward my wife and children are the same feelings that I have for food! Overuse of this word has diffused it of any real meaning.
Some of us say that love is a relationship, while others would say that sex is love. And since when did we start calling “sex” “making love”? Some of us would say that love is the act of asking for forgiveness, while others would say, to quote a line from a famous movie, that “love means never having to say you’re sorry!” For some of you guys, you would say that you experience something like love as you walk into a Best Buy and you see hundreds and thousands of electronic gadgets, each one calling your name, and above each item, the two most beautiful words in the English dictionary: “On Sale.” For some of you, the word “love” immediately brings to your mind a particular person, maybe a particular song, or maybe a particular day. And I bet that many of you used the word “love” a few times yesterday as you spent Valentine’s Day with that special person in your life.
But is that the kind of love that Jesus is talking about in John 3:16? Is God basically a cosmic Britney Spears or Justin Timberlake serenading us with a beautiful ballad?
The Bible uses a variety of words for love, each one intended for a specific target. In the Old Testament, we have words like “Hasaq” and “Hesed.” These words, Hasaq and Hesed, denote a binding of oneself to the object of his love. In this sense, Bible is saying that God chains himself to the object of his love. He handcuffs himself to you and he says that he will never let you go.
There is an incredible love story in the Old Testament between a man named Hosea and his wife, Gomer. And to put it nicely, Gomer was not someone who cared particularly much about the notion of fidelity in marriage, as she jumped around from one lover to the next, day after day. And in so doing she destroys her life, and she shatters Hosea’s heart. She runs away from Hosea and ends up destitute, and eventually is placed for sale in a slave market. And do you know who stepped up to buy her? Hosea. He binds himself to the object of his love, and there is no escaping that kind of love no matter how hard you try. And God uses this story to say that this is exactly how he loves us. He says this in Hosea 3:1:
Hosea 3:1 (The Message)This is the love that we see in John 3:16. “Hasaq” has been replaced with the Greek term “Agape,” but the meaning is equally powerful! But God isn’t so much interested in defining love as he is in demonstrating it.
Then God ordered [Hosea], “Start all over: Love your wife again, your wife who's in bed with her latest boyfriend, your cheating wife. Love her the way I, God, love the Israelite people, even as they flirt and party with every god that takes their fancy.”
Let me share with you one other illustration of this kind of love. The man’s name was Dan Mazzeo and he shares this story about his dad whom he lovingly calls “Pop.” Pop is a first-generation Italian American who was fighting liver and lung cancer. When doctors gave him less than a year to live, Pop declared that he was not afraid to die, after all, his wife was already gone, and all of his children were adults now. But Pop learned that his son, Dan, was expecting their first child, Pop’s first grandchild. On hearing this wonderful news, Pop simply said, “I’m gonna make that.”
The chemo therapy that Pop was on was destroying not only the cancer, but also his body. He was no longer able to move about on his own. He was now confined to a wheelchair, he couldn’t eat on his own; he was basically at the mercy of those who took care of him. And he was in terrible pain all the time. But when he heard that his granddaughter was born, he insisted on going to the hospital. The 90-minute car ride to the hospital was a torture to his ailing body. Once they arrived, Dan put him in a wheelchair and took him to see the baby. Pop’s arms were too weak to hold the baby, so Dan held the baby for him on his lap. But Pop did what he came to do. He leaned over, kissed her, and said, “Sheila Mary, Grandpa loves you very much!” Within seconds after that, Pop was asleep, within an hour he was back in his car, and within days he was dead.
What is it about love, this incredible thing called love, that compels us to reach for the impossible? What is it about love, this incredible thing called love, that compels God to reach for us? To bind himself to us? God is a God of love. Above all else, our God is a God of love!
So loved the world
But more shocking than the fact that God loves is that he loves the world!
John 3:16Life-changing truth #3 revealed in John 3:16 is this: God loves Christians, Muslims, Jews, Atheists, and You!
For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.
Life-Changing Truth #3: God loves Christians, Muslims, Jews, Atheists, and YouJust a few verses before John 3:16, Jesus compares his life’s mission with what happened in the day of Moses when the people rebelled against God. The people of Israel were complaining that they were sick of eating manna, this miraculous bread from heaven that God had graciously been supplying for them every day to sustain them. And the result of this complaining, this sin against God, was a plague of snakes that moved throughout the whole camp. People were being bitten by these snakes and they were dying. And in his characteristic fashion, Moses pleads with God asking for his mercy. And this is what God says in Numbers 21:8:
Numbers 21:8So God’s design of love to rescue the rebellious people from perishing was to lift up a bronze snake on a pole so all that the people had to do was to simply look at it in faith and be saved. (By the way, the snake entwined around the pole is a symbol that remains even today as a sign of healing used by various medical organizations.) There was no magical power in this bronze snake on a pole. There was nothing they could do to save themselves. They were saved by faith as they looked to the bronze snake on a pole that God had provided for them.
The LORD said to Moses, “Make a snake and put it up on a pole; anyone who is bitten can look at it and live.”
And with this incredible story as the backdrop, Jesus says this in John 3:14-15:
John 3:14-15So when Jesus says that “God so loved the world,” it means that God loves this world that is full of rebellious, sinful, complaining, unbelieving, snake-bitten people. He means that he loves you and me. He means that he loves Christians. He means that he loves Muslims and Jews. He means that he loves Atheists and Agnostics. He loves you. He loves me. There is absolutely no one who is left out in this phrase, “the world.” It is the universally open door saying, everyone can come, everyone can enjoy a relationship with God. It is the ultimate all-inclusive statement found in the Bible. There is absolutely no one in this world who is not loved by God. So, what did he do? What did this God of love do?
Just as Moses lifted up the snake in the wilderness, so the Son of Man [Jesus] must be lifted up, 15 that everyone who believes may have eternal life in him.”
Did he just merely issue a set of moral laws? No! Did he just leave this whole thing up to us? No! Did he say, “Just try harder!” No! The love of God compels him to send his one and only Son, Jesus, to be raised upon a cross, and he says, “look to him and be saved! Look to Jesus and be saved!”
He gave his one and only Son
It has been said that love is less an affection, and more a decision; less a feeling, and more an action. And that is exactly what we see in John 3:16. Not only do we see God’s love in action, but it also reveals the divine nature of Jesus.
John 3:16Life-changing truth #4 revealed in John 3:16 is this: Jesus is God!
For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.
Life-Changing Truth #4: Jesus is God!The Greek word for “one and only” is “monogenes,” which is made up of “monos” meaning “only” and “genes” meaning “species, race, or family.” In the Bible, this phrase is almost exclusively used to describe a relationship between a parent and child. So, for example, we see in Hebrews 11:17:
Hebrews 11:17“Monogenes” is used in John 3:16 to highlight a specific kind of relationship between Jesus and God. Though God may be the father of all humanity, Jesus alone is the “monogenes” Son of God, because only Jesus has God’s genetic makeup, meaning that every single quality that we attribute to God, we can attribute to Jesus. That’s why he is able to boldly claim in John 14:9:
By faith Abraham, when God tested him, offered Isaac as a sacrifice. He who had embraced the promises was about to sacrifice his one and only son
John 14:9Some versions of the Bible translate “monogenes” as “only begotten” which also beautiful illuminates this point. As C.S. Lewis, the great Christian author writes:
Anyone who has seen me has seen the Father.
Rabbits beget rabbits; horses beget horses; humans beget humans, not statues or portraits; and God begets God – not humans and not angels.God’s only begotten son, the one and only Son, Jesus, is God! Jesus is God!
Whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life
I mentioned just a little bit ago that the phrase “God so loved the world” is the ultimate all-inclusive claim found in the Bible. But in John 3:16, we also have the most exclusive claim in the Bible:
John 3:16So, the fifth life-changing truth revealed in John 3:16 is this: Salvation is found in Jesus alone.
For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him [Jesus] shall not perish but have eternal life.
Life-Changing Truth #5: Salvation is found in Jesus aloneEchoing the all-inclusive statement “the world”, this next part begins with “whoever.” There is absolutely nobody who is left out in “whoever.” It is all encompassing. It is every single person in this world that God loves. But the entryway into this all-inclusive love is an exclusive door, “a narrow door,” if you will.
John 3:16 says “whoever believes in him,” meaning Jesus! Not “whoever believes in the prophet Mohammed.” Not “whoever believes in Moses or Abraham.” Not “whoever believes in him or herself.” Not “whoever tries really hard.” Not even “whoever is sincere.” But John 3:16 says, “whoever believes in Jesus.” There is absolutely no grey area here! And just in case you were wondering, Jesus says this in John 14:6:
John 14:6No one, absolutely no one, comes to the Father except through Jesus. It is absolutely exclusive. And this exclusive thrust is also echoed by Peter in Acts 4:12:
I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.
Acts 4:12“But, wait a minute,” you may be wondering, “didn’t you just say that God is love? How can a loving God make such an exclusive claim? Why can’t all roads lead to God? Aren’t all approaches to God correct, especially if you are sincere?”
Salvation is found in no one else, for there is no other name given under heaven by which we must be saved.
First let me say this: All religion, every single religion, is exclusive because any claims of truth is exclusive by nature. If truth does not exclude, then no assertion of a truth claim is being made; so in that case, what’s being stated is just an opinion. Any time you make a truth claim, you mean something contrary to it is false. Truth excludes its opposite. All religions are exclusive. You could actually say that all worldviews are exclusive.
“Well,” you may say, “then why couldn’t it be that somehow actually all religions are right?”
Well, Islam says that Jesus was not crucified. Christians say he was. Both can’t be right. Judaism denies that Jesus is the Messiah. Christians say he is. Both can’t be right. Buddhists look toward Nirvana, which for some is achieved after 547 reincarnations. Christians believe in one life, one death, and one eternity with God. Both can’t be right. Hindus believe in an impersonal god. Christians believe that God is deeply personal. Both can’t be right. Humanists and atheists do not acknowledge a creator of life. Jesus says that he is the source of life. Both can’t be right. Judaism sees salvation as a Judgment Day decision based on morality. Hindus anticipate multiple reincarnations in the soul’s journey through the cosmos. Buddhism grades your life according to the Four Noble Truths and the Noble Eightfold Path. Muslims earn their way to Allah by performing the duties of the Five Pillars of Faith. People may try to group Jesus with Moses, Muhammad, Confucius, and other spiritual leaders, but Jesus simply refuses to share the stage. He says absolutely “no one comes to the Father except through me because I am the way and the truth and the life.”
The great theologian R.C. Sproul said this:
Moses could meditate on the law; Muhammad could brandish a sword; Buddha could give personal counsel; Confucius could offer wise sayings; but none of these men was qualified to offer an atonement for the sins of the world… Christ alone is worthy of unlimited devotion and service.Not all roads lead to God because not all roads are equal. Any religion that says that our effort is what truly matters can not provide a solution for sin. Any religion that says it is what we do that wipes away the result of sin in this world can not provide a solution for hell. Sin penetrates too deeply! And its affects are felt universally, which is why the Apostle Paul says this in Romans 3:23:
Romans 3:23All have sinned, every single one of us have sinned, and we fall short again and again and again. Sin taints how we think, how we act, how we feel. There is nothing in us that is not impacted by sin. And there is nothing that you can do about it. Our mental, physical, emotional capacity simply is not powerful enough to battle sin.
All have sinned and fall short of the glory of God
No matter how many times you are reincarnated, you simply can not win the battle against sin. No matter how moral you may be, you can not undo the impact of sin in your life. No matter how strictly you adhere to the laws of your religion, you can not defeat sin. What is needed is for God himself to provide the answer. What is needed is for God himself to pay the price for sin. So, there is absolutely no solution to the problem of sin apart from the God-Man, whose name is Jesus. And that’s why Jesus says:
John 14:6Jesus is not making an exclusive claim for the sake of being right or arrogant. With these words, Jesus is earnestly and passionately pleading with every man and woman, saying, “Really, there is no other way! You can search high and low but there is simply no other way. You can seek out all the other religions but there is no other way. You can even try super hard by yourself, but there is no other way. Really, I am the truth. I am the life. And I am the only way. And no one comes to the Father except through me. So, let me be that door for you! Please!”
I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.
It is more than an exclusive claim! It is the ultimate declaration of love! Having demonstrated his love by being lifted up on the cross to be sacrificed for the sins of the world, Jesus is uniquely qualified to say:
John 14:6Paul echoes this point beautifully in these wonderful words found in Philippians 2:6-11:
I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.
Philippians 2:6-11The absolutely mindboggling truth of the Gospel is this: The death of God is what makes our life possible. That’s why Paul writes in Romans 5:8, these words:
Who, being in very nature God, did not consider equality with God something to be used to his own advantage; 7 rather, he made himself nothing by taking the very nature of a servant, being made in human likeness. 8 And being found in appearance as a human being, he humbled himself by becoming obedient to death—even death on a cross! 9 Therefore God exalted him to the highest place and gave him the name that is above every name, 10 that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, in heaven and on earth and under the earth, 11 and every tongue acknowledge that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father.
Romans 5:8The death of God is what makes our life possible. Jesus Christ has been lifted up on the cross, and God says, “Look to him and be saved! Look to him and be saved!” This is what love is! This is our God of love!
But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.
We started off in the beginning of our time with the story of John Griffith and his son Greg. And I would like to close our time tonight with that same story. In 2003, a Czech film director made a short movie based on this true story. Its English title is “The Bridge.” So, let’s watch the clip.
The death of God is what makes our life possible. Let me read for you again, this greatest verse in the entire Bible, the words of Jesus found in John 3:16:
John 3:16Let’s pray.
For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.
